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Dreaming About Leaving Your Marriage For An Affair? Let’s Have a Conversation First.
You say you feel alive again—and I believe you. But before you leave your marriage, ask yourself gently: Is this love... or is it the version of you that came back to life?
A letter to the one in an affair, who’s thinking about leaving.
Not judgment. Just truth. And love that tells the whole story.
Alexa Griffith
Jun 93 min read
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Beyond Screen Battles: A Calm, Connected, And Shame Free Summer Plan for Families
Discover practical, research-backed tips for managing kids' screen time this summer without constant conflict. Learn how to set tech boundaries, support neurodivergent needs, and build healthy digital habits with empathy and balance.
Alexa Griffith
May 306 min read
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When Kids Lie: What’s Really Going On (and How to Keep Your Cool)
When kids lie, it’s not because they’re “bad.”
It’s because, in that moment, telling the truth doesn’t feel safe. 💔
Lying is a survival strategy — and when we meet it with connection, not punishment, we help our kids build the courage to be honest.
Learn why lying is more about felt safety than character — and how to use your X-ray vision goggles to see the need beneath the behavior
Alexa Griffith
May 125 min read
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Soiling the Nest: Why You Might Be Picking Fights Before Graduation (And How to Handle It)
Navigating the transition from high school to adulthood can feel overwhelming. Explore relatable resources for teens about emotional regulation, leaving home, and maintaining connections with family and friends. Find TikTok, Instagram, blog, and Substack recommendations that offer real, validating advice for handling "soiling the nest" moments — and tips for communicating with parents during this big life change.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 296 min read
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When Kids Don’t “Know Their Place”: Reframing PDA Through a Therapist’s Lens
Kids with a PDA profile often don’t recognize traditional social hierarchies—respect isn’t given based on age or authority, it’s earned through connection. This can leave adults feeling disrespected or flabbergasted, but PDAers aren’t trying to be rude—they’re trying to stay safe. Power-over approaches trigger threat responses. True connection happens when power is shared, not imposed.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 225 min read
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Understanding How Children Grieve: A Guide for Loving Adults
Sometimes the unimaginable suddenly becomes very real. Grief isn’t just for grown-ups. Children grieve, too, though it often looks differen
Alexa Griffith
Mar 34 min read
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Supporting Kids Through Divorce: A Trauma-Informed Approach to the First Conversation
Tailoring the conversation to your child’s specific needs is key to fostering emotional safety and understanding.
Alexa Griffith
Jan 73 min read
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Thanksgiving Turkey or a Flaming Turd? Appreciating Thanksgiving in 2020
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace...

Alexa Griffith
Nov 24, 20203 min read
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Its Time For Family Feud: Election Season Edition
Adult children can have different political views and raise their own children with their same values, which may or may not hold.

Alexa Griffith
Sep 23, 20205 min read
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Happy Traumaversary
As a therapist I was very familiar with how trauma works and what to expect. However, I still felt like I could lose my grip.
Alexa Griffith
May 24, 20206 min read
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