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We Need To Talk About Political Stress
Feeling overwhelmed by politics? You’re not alone. This nonpartisan guide explores the emotional toll of political anxiety through the lens of nervous system science, vulnerability, and resilience—with insights from Brené Brown, Krista Tippett, and others. Learn how to stay grounded, set boundaries, and lead with curiosity—even in a divided world.
Alexa Griffith
May 185 min read
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Soiling the Nest: Why You Might Be Picking Fights Before Graduation (And How to Handle It)
Navigating the transition from high school to adulthood can feel overwhelming. Explore relatable resources for teens about emotional regulation, leaving home, and maintaining connections with family and friends. Find TikTok, Instagram, blog, and Substack recommendations that offer real, validating advice for handling "soiling the nest" moments — and tips for communicating with parents during this big life change.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 296 min read
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Why You Freeze at Emails, Meetings, and “What’s for Dinner?”
If you’re an adult who freezes at emails, dreads group texts, or snaps when your partner asks “What’s for dinner?”—this might be for you. Adult PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) isn’t about being lazy or difficult. It’s a nervous system response to feeling trapped or expected. In this blog, we break down how PDA shows up at work, in relationships, and why your brain isn’t broken—it’s just trying to protect you.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 264 min read
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When Kids Don’t “Know Their Place”: Reframing PDA Through a Therapist’s Lens
Kids with a PDA profile often don’t recognize traditional social hierarchies—respect isn’t given based on age or authority, it’s earned through connection. This can leave adults feeling disrespected or flabbergasted, but PDAers aren’t trying to be rude—they’re trying to stay safe. Power-over approaches trigger threat responses. True connection happens when power is shared, not imposed.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 225 min read
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PDA...This Isn’t Defiance—It’s a Drive for Autonomy (And It’s Highly Misunderstood)
If you—or your child—melt down, shut down, or panic when asked to do something simple, it may be Pervasive Demand for Autonomy (PDA). This isn’t defiance—it’s a nervous system reacting to a loss of control. Inspired by Dr. Megan Neff and Robyn Gobbel, this blog explores PDA in kids and adults, explains why it’s misunderstood, and shares tools to support safety, connection, and regulation.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 193 min read
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You're Not Too Sensitive—You Might Have RSD (And No, You're Not Making It Up)
If you’ve ever spiraled after a short text, cried over constructive feedback, or thought someone’s silence meant you did something wrong—you might be dealing with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. And no, you're not too sensitive. You’re wired for deep care. 💛
Alexa Griffith
Apr 163 min read
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Why Punishment Doesn't Work for Kids with ADHD (And What to Do Instead)
ADHD isn’t a knowledge problem—it’s a performance problem. Kids with ADHD know what they’re supposed to do; they just struggle to do it .
Alexa Griffith
Mar 164 min read
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Play Therapy: How Kids Heal Through Play
Play therapy isn’t about “fixing” a child. It’s about creating a safe space where they can feel seen, heard, and understood—so they can heal
Alexa Griffith
Feb 34 min read


Supporting Kids Through Divorce: A Trauma-Informed Approach to the First Conversation
Tailoring the conversation to your child’s specific needs is key to fostering emotional safety and understanding.
Alexa Griffith
Jan 73 min read
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Canceled: No Grace For You
“People are hard to hate up close. Move in.”- Brené Brown In my practice, I talk a LOT about gratitude. Sometimes I find myself in a...

Alexa Griffith
Sep 17, 20204 min read
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How Do You Cope With Constant Uncertainty?
My family was thrown for another loop this week. Last week I sent my high school kids back on hybrid schedule and my elementary school...
Alexa Griffith
Aug 20, 20204 min read
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When You’re Stuck In A Worry, Tapping Can Help
It's designed to use your body and pressure points to help jolt you out of your head or dissociations into your body and feeling grounded
Alexa Griffith
Aug 13, 20203 min read


"TIPP" To Quiet The Alarm
TIPP is a coping strategy that we can use to take us out of our fight/flight/freeze mode
Alexa Griffith
Jul 23, 20203 min read


Happy Traumaversary
As a therapist I was very familiar with how trauma works and what to expect. However, I still felt like I could lose my grip.
Alexa Griffith
May 24, 20206 min read
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