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We Need To Talk About Political Stress
Feeling overwhelmed by politics? You’re not alone. This nonpartisan guide explores the emotional toll of political anxiety through the lens of nervous system science, vulnerability, and resilience—with insights from Brené Brown, Krista Tippett, and others. Learn how to stay grounded, set boundaries, and lead with curiosity—even in a divided world.
Alexa Griffith
May 185 min read


When Kids Lie: What’s Really Going On (and How to Keep Your Cool)
When kids lie, it’s not because they’re “bad.”
It’s because, in that moment, telling the truth doesn’t feel safe. 💔
Lying is a survival strategy — and when we meet it with connection, not punishment, we help our kids build the courage to be honest.
Learn why lying is more about felt safety than character — and how to use your X-ray vision goggles to see the need beneath the behavior
Alexa Griffith
May 125 min read


Soiling the Nest: Why You Might Be Picking Fights Before Graduation (And How to Handle It)
Navigating the transition from high school to adulthood can feel overwhelming. Explore relatable resources for teens about emotional regulation, leaving home, and maintaining connections with family and friends. Find TikTok, Instagram, blog, and Substack recommendations that offer real, validating advice for handling "soiling the nest" moments — and tips for communicating with parents during this big life change.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 296 min read


When Kids Don’t “Know Their Place”: Reframing PDA Through a Therapist’s Lens
Kids with a PDA profile often don’t recognize traditional social hierarchies—respect isn’t given based on age or authority, it’s earned through connection. This can leave adults feeling disrespected or flabbergasted, but PDAers aren’t trying to be rude—they’re trying to stay safe. Power-over approaches trigger threat responses. True connection happens when power is shared, not imposed.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 225 min read


PDA...This Isn’t Defiance—It’s a Drive for Autonomy (And It’s Highly Misunderstood)
If you—or your child—melt down, shut down, or panic when asked to do something simple, it may be Pervasive Demand for Autonomy (PDA). This isn’t defiance—it’s a nervous system reacting to a loss of control. Inspired by Dr. Megan Neff and Robyn Gobbel, this blog explores PDA in kids and adults, explains why it’s misunderstood, and shares tools to support safety, connection, and regulation.
Alexa Griffith
Apr 193 min read


Handling Holiday Stress During Divisive Times
Holiday get-togethers can be stressful but you can learn to bring yourself back to a state of safety and connection!
Alexa Griffith
Nov 21, 20244 min read
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